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Finding my Holiday Joy as a Former Foster Youth
Originally published under www.professorcaryshelby.com in December 2020. The chaos of our home always seemed to intensify during the...
Cary Martin Shelby
Dec 15, 20234 min read
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Learning to Lead With My Strengths
Originally published under www.professorcaryshelby.com in August 2020. My first couple of years working as a transactional lawyer at a...
Cary Martin Shelby
Sep 6, 20235 min read
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What Beyoncé Has Taught Me About Radical Confidence as a Former Foster Youth
Euphoria enveloped the nation when Beyoncè’s Renaissance tour was announced to the public. Conference calls were immediately scheduled by...
Cary Martin Shelby
Jun 29, 20235 min read
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Unapologetically Embracing Entitlement to Humanity
The word entitlement is typically associated with negative connotations. The Meriam-Webster dictionary defines it in part as a “belief...
Cary Martin Shelby
May 26, 20234 min read
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Inspired by Her Own Foster Care Upbringing, Law Professor Sends Care Packages to Students
As published in Law.com on July 29, 2022: “No one understands your circumstances and how hard you have to work,” said Cary Martin Shelby,...
Cary Martin Shelby
Oct 17, 20223 min read
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Law School Exam Tips from Professor Shelby
I vividly recall walking to my first 1L exam. That three-block walk from my son’s daycare to the law school seemed to take all of...
Cary Martin Shelby
Apr 28, 20225 min read
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Living my Best Life by Choosing to Honor Myself
Today, on my 40th birthday, I have fought the urge to tell my younger self what I should have done, or who I should have been. I have...
Cary Martin Shelby
Aug 28, 20213 min read
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Build a Mosaic of Mentors
“I think that you would be an excellent law professor.” It was nearly impossible for me to envision my professor’s observation. I had...
Cary Martin Shelby
Aug 20, 20215 min read
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A Love Letter to My Joy
I used to think that you were nonexistent. Fantasies of what you could have felt like appeared in my dreams. Seeing others freely...
Cary Martin Shelby
Jun 8, 20213 min read
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Unlearning What I Have Been Taught on my Path Towards Self-Care
Awaiting Derek Chauvin’s verdict for George Floyd’s murder propelled me into an agonizing blend of sorrow and anger yet again. Before I...
Cary Martin Shelby
May 10, 20215 min read
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Piecing Together a Father's Love
“We are so sorry. Your father passed away early this morning.” Even though I knew that the call was coming, nothing could prepare me for...
Cary Martin Shelby
Mar 19, 20213 min read
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GREETINGS
Through this blog, I am now passing along my mosaic one jewel at a time to other students who are facing comparable adversities.

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